If all your conversations are suddenly orbiting around thinning hair, mood swings, and stubborn weight gain, congrats: you may be in perimenopause, the transitional phase before full-on menopause. Other signs? You’re waking up at 3 a.m. for no reason, your brain feels cloudy, and everything feels a little more stressful than it did before.
You can thank your hormones, including cortisol. Also known as the body’s main stress hormone, cortisol is supposed to follow a predictable rhythm: high in the morning, low at night. “But during perimenopause and menopause, shifts in estrogen and progesterone can make the body’s stress response more reactive,” explains functional diagnostic nutrition practitioner and holistic nutritionist Selina Rose. “Estrogen helps buffer cortisol, so as it fluctuates, many women experience increased anxiety, disrupted sleep, and that ‘wired but tired’ feeling. At the same time, this phase can come with more blood sugar variability, which can further trigger cortisol release. Together, these hormonal and metabolic changes can amplify overall stress. The result can feel like your nervous system is permanently set to frazzled, even on days when nothing is technically wrong.”
To get a handle on it, you might make the honest mistake of getting extra disciplined with your exercise regimen. But this can actually spike your cortisol, leading to a vicious cycle that’s hard to escape—especially if you’re also dealing with stubborn weight gain. “Menopause often causes fat to redistribute to the abdomen, and this fat is visceral fat, which can actually generate its own cortisol. This creates a cycle where the elevated cortisol causes more fat accumulation, and that fat then produces more cortisol locally,” explains Dr. Jody-Ann McLean, a medical doctor and health writer who specializes in women’s hormonal and metabolic health. “It can be really hard to break this cycle without addressing the underlying hormones. It’s one of the reasons why menopause-related weight gain, especially around the middle, can feel so resistant to diet and exercise alone.”
If this sounds bleak, take a breath. Here are 11 ways to help lower cortisol during perimenopause and menopause that are accessible, straightforward, and relatively easy.
1. Stabilize your blood sugar
“One of the most effective strategies is stabilizing blood sugar,” says Rose. “During perimenopause, spikes and crashes can trigger additional cortisol release. Building meals with protein, healthy fats, and fiber helps slow glucose absorption and support a steadier stress response.”
That doesn’t mean you need to count macros, however. “Do not go on a restrictive diet, even if you experience weight gain,” emphasizes Pam Reece, a stress management expert who specializes in midlife women. “Instead, focus on eating a balanced diet you enjoy, emphasizing nutritious foods like whole grains, fatty fish, and fruits and veggies—and still allow room for dessert. Dieting will only lead to higher cortisol levels and other consequences that impact quality of life, like food preoccupation, lack of focus, binge eating, and social isolation. Plus, restrictive diets almost always lead to eventual weight re-gain.”
2. Eat a high-protein breakfast
To that end, focusing on eating a cortisol-stabilizing, high-protein breakfast within 60 to 90 minutes of waking can be an accessible way to shift your diet without restriction. “A high protein breakfast paired with fiber and healthy fats helps stabilize glucose and reduces cortisol-driven crashes later in the day,” explains Ana Bueno, an anti-inflammatory nutritionist who specializes in women’s metabolic and hormonal health. “Think: eggs, sautéed greens, and avocado, or Greek yogurt, chia seeds, and berries, or tofu scramble with olive oil.”
3. Prioritize sleep
“Inadequate sleep is a huge driver of increased cortisol levels,” says board-certified endocrinologist Dr. Gillian Goddard, author of The Hormone Loop. “When we have adequate sleep, it directly reduces cortisol levels. It gives us the mental clarity to engage in thoughtful decision making, which helps manage emotional stress, and helps us process carbohydrates more efficiently, leading to even blood sugar levels.”
To that end, it’s important to be protective of your circadian rhythm. “Prioritize a consistent sleep-wake schedule. Research shows that consistency in sleep timing is one of the most effective ways to support a healthy cortisol pattern,” says longevity physician Dr. Jennifer Timmons. “It’s not just about getting enough sleep, but about going to bed and waking up at the same time every day. Cortisol naturally peaks in the morning to help you wake up and drops at night, which is known as the cortisol awakening response. During perimenopause, sleep disruption can fracture this rhythm, causing cortisol to spike at the wrong times and creating a cycle of fatigue and elevated stress hormones. By maintaining the same wake time every morning, even on weekends, as well as getting outdoor light exposure within 30 minutes of waking, you can help reset your circadian rhythm and regulate your cortisol timing.”
4. Start strength training
“High-intensity cardio can raise cortisol levels, whereas strength training helps decrease cortisol while improving insulin sensitivity and metabolic flexibility,” notes Timmons. “This is partly because muscle acts as an endocrine organ and releases compounds called myokines that interact with your metabolism and help lower cortisol levels.”
The benefits of strength training extend beyond regulating cortisol: “As we age, muscle mass decreases and, with declining estrogen levels, the risk of osteoporosis increases,” explains registered dietitian Dawn Menning. “Strength training and adequate protein intake can help preserve lean muscle mass and increase bone density. Try to incorporate strength training two to three times per week.”
5. Take magnesium
“One of the most effective nutrition strategies for lowering cortisol during this phase is increasing magnesium intake,” says registered dietitian Jennifer Pallian. “Magnesium helps regulate cortisol by modulating the HPA axis (the body’s central stress-response system) and indirectly reducing adrenocorticotropic hormone (ACTH), a hormone that signals the adrenal glands to release cortisol, while also supporting key stress-related neurotransmitters such as serotonin and GABA. This is especially relevant during perimenopause/menopause, when magnesium levels often decline, and deficiency is common.”
6. Add potassium
Along those same lines, “potassium supports adrenal regulation and fluid balance—both of which are commonly disrupted during menopause,” says Bueno. “Consistent intake from foods like pumpkin seeds, leafy greens, beans, lentils, avocado, sweet potato, and bananas can reduce stress sensitivity and improve sleep quality, which directly lowers cortisol over time.”
7. Try adaptogens
“I recommend women incorporate adaptogenic herbs like ashwagandha, shatavari, and rhodiola into their routine,” says certified nutritionist Shruti Mishra. “Ashwagandha has been clinically studied and shown to reduce cortisol by up to 30% in chronically stressed adults; shatavari has been used for centuries in women’s hormonal health. It supports estrogen balance and has calming properties that complement ashwagandha’s cortisol-lowering effects. Together, they address both the cortisol spike and the underlying estrogen decline that drives it.”
8. Spend more time in nature
Stress and cortisol go hand-in-hand, so managing stress is key. One of the easiest ways to do just that: Spending more time in the great outdoors. “Going out into the woods, mountains, beach, or even your neighborhood park will help naturally lower your cortisol levels and boost your well-being,” notes registered dietitian Caroline Young. “One of the reasons why nature helps lower cortisol levels is because it engages the parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest) and decreases sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight) activity. Aim for a minimum of 20 to 30 minutes on a daily basis.”
9. Shake off stress in small bursts
Finding tiny ways to break the cortisol loop throughout the day can make a big impact. “These can be small moments just to interrupt your nervous system response,” says board-certified internist Dr. Stacy Heimburger, MD. “Think: short walks, stepping outside, breathing techniques, minute-long meditations, noise-cancelling headphones—anything that can help release the amount of input coming into your body. These small moments help signal to your brain that you are safe and can help reduce cortisol.”
Reece agrees: “When stress hormones don’t get released, they build up, keeping the body on low-grade high alert even when the immediate pressure has passed,” she says. Short bouts of movement, like shaking out the hands and arms or even 30 seconds of dancing, help to physically metabolize cortisol and adrenaline the way the nervous system was designed to release them. When done consistently in small doses throughout the day prevents stress buildup from stacking.”
10. Try hypnosis
It might sound far-out, but “clinical hypnosis has been recommended by both The Menopause Society and British Menopause Society as a non-hormonal treatment option for symptoms such as hot flushes and night sweats,” notes Georgina Hall, a coach and cognitive behavioral hypnotherapist who focuses on burnout in midlife women. “Randomized trials suggest it can significantly reduce the frequency and severity of these symptoms. This can be particularly useful for women who cannot or prefer not to use hormone therapy. Plus, many hypnotherapy protocols also teach self-hypnosis skills, meaning women can continue using the techniques independently after a relatively short course of treatment.”
11. Go easy on yourself
While it can be tempting to double down on exercise and wellness regimens, the extra pressure can actually cause more stress. Instead, “cut yourself some slack,” says Reece. “If stress has been running in the background for years, the nervous system has been running that pattern long enough that it becomes a habit. Starting with the body first—with movement and breath practices that don’t add more to your list but help you use your time a little differently—will shift the signal. When that happens, the mind follows with more clarity, less anxiety and it all feels more manageable.”
Young agrees: “It’s possible to work with your body instead of fighting against all of its natural changes. Focusing on meeting all your needs—physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and so on. Befriending your body, perhaps with the help of a therapist or dietitian, will go a long way,” she says.
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