Creating a fun, fulfilling sex life—and giving the best sexy gifts—requires creativity, cheekiness, and a dedication to pleasure. What better way to demonstrate those qualities than by buying a sexy holiday gift for someone you adore? Aside from the obvious nice-to-be-naughty aspect, sexual pleasure is also a powerful form of self-care—and couldn’t we all use a little more delight in our lives?
Maybe you’re a vibrator connoisseur or perhaps a curious novice. Maybe you’re shopping for a Christmas gift, anniversary gift, Valentine’s Day gift, or a romantic gift just to show that special someone you’re thinking of them. Whatever the reason and whatever your giftee’s tastes, we’ve got the best sexy gifts primed to light up anyone’s holiday (including your own), from top-rated sex toys, lacy lingerie, and kinky card games to BDSM starter kits, bedroom-ready sex pillows, and sex blankets.
Below, we’ve curated the best sexy gift ideas for what to give the person in your life who deserves to relax and feel good—whether that person is your significant other, bestie, or you. And, if you’re still at a loss and want to take more of a sampler approach, consider a sexy advent calendar.
For more present picks, check out all of the best gift ideas of 2022.
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Lovehoney
Lovehoney X Womanizer 12 Days of Play Sex Toy Advent Calendar
Keep the good vibes rolling with this 12-day sexy advent calendar from Lovehoney and best-selling sex toy brand Womanizer. Every day, you’ll open a window to a slew of sensual fun, including a clitoral stimulator, G-spot vibrator, anal beads, and crystal butt plug, as well as nipple suckers, orgasm balm, and a bevy of other items that are sure to delight.
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Courtesy of the brand / Amanda K Bailey
Maude Vibe
This SELF Fave vibrator is simple enough for beginners, stimulating enough for intense orgasms, and aesthetically pleasing enough to proudly display on any nightstand. With its discreet shape and included canvas pouch, it’s also easy to slip into a backpack for travel.
